Pre-school, Pumpkins and Potential Problems

I can't believe 2 months have passed since my last blog post!  A lot has happened but none of it seemed necessary to blog about at the time. But here it is. 
Tiernan and I spent most of September in a modified quarantine and both were MORE than ready to jump back into school with both feet!

We stopped in for picture day and he had such a blast with these crazy boys. 

Put a tie on this kid and he immediately decides he is the most important guy around. 

Tiernan and his buddy Landon had a great time playing while waiting their turn for photos.

Tiernan had his peeps: Adrian, Alex, Nicholas, Vivi and Elizabeth.  (By the way, L is only 3 in the picture above this one....shows how tiny Tiernan actually is when compared with his friends.)

Tiernan was feeling so good about getting back to pre-school.  His frist day back brought out his sassy side.

Our awesome friends (who are really family) The Whalens, found this perfect firefighter costume for T and knew he had to have it.  He has worn the coat to school every day since then. 

 Tiernan got double the pumpkin patch fun this year too.  We went first with our Mended Little Hearts group.  It was such a great day with his heart buddies. 

T, Alex and Christopher after romping around in the room of corn.  Corn is dusty.  I had no idea.

Tiernan found this duck race to be hilarious.  That kid loves ducks.  haha.

 What joy it brought to see these three boys taking on the corn maze together.  What a crew.  I am so thankful for all the heart mams in my life. 

Our fearless corn maze leaders: Luke, Tiernan and Alex.

Next up was Tiernan's pre-school trip.  Since I have next to no sick/personal leave to my name, I relied on my friends who made sure to get some good photos of him. (Thanks Mendy and Carmen.)  

Wow!  Half way up the white pumpkin this year.

Tiernan and his sweet friend Vivienne.  They sure missed each other.

These two found a great slug to investigate.

This little monster was hiding behind the bush at pre-school.  I decided to catch him and keep him.

 Tiernan was looking so forward to Halloween this year.  He was...wait for it....a firefighter.  He wore his full costume to pre-school for their party and, because he wears the coat everyday, Vivi asked him where his costume was.  Ms. Kay told him no one would think he was dressed up.  :)

Tiernan was absolutely the brave one of the group when it came to Trick or Treating.  Tristan and Michael were not nearly so confident at some of the houses.  But T2 marched straight towards door after door and faced some rather fearsome characters, but was only really startled once. 
"That guy scared me right off the step!  And some of my candy fell!"

At most houses, however, he just struck up conversations and enjoyed meeting any dogs who might come to greet him.

He brought in quite a haul.  More than his brother, and so heavy, he needed help toward the end. 
The most wonderful thing about the entire night was that he walked the entire time (save the last block and a half) and was not out of breath.  Last year he rode in the wagon from house to house.  (Very likely burning more calories and energy climbing in and out of the thing every 15 feet, but he was definitely purple and breathless.)

In medical news:
Tiernan has had a lot of appointments with many different doctors.  Some new ones as well as old favorites...including this dude.  Dr. Pickens is back on the job to help Tiernan gain some weight after surgery.  It has been slow going, and with the fluid restrictions and thickening throwing in some extra challenges, he has only gained a little of the weight back.  (He had finally made it to 38 lbs when he went into surgery, and he is just now back to 35.8)

Tiernan also sees Dr. Hanevold now as well.  She is a nephrologist, or kidney specialist.  He is on such a heavy diuretics regimen, that Dr. Park decided it would be best to have her involved.  She spends a lot of her time dealing with kids on diuretics, and he WAS technically in kidney failure.  So she now orders and reviews all the blood work which plagues this kid's life.  He is currently on giant amounts of Potassium Chloride pills to keep everything in order.  If his electrolytes were to get out of whack, then we would start to see some heart rhythm issues.  We definitely don't want to add that into the mix. 

From a cardiac standpoint, a month ago, things were looking incredible for those four chambers of his.  We knew, even by this point, that a valve surgery would be in his future, but were hoping things would last a good 10 years before that became necessary.  Current replacement valves don't grow with a patient, so any replacements in children are only temporary until they are old enough for an adult sized mechanical valve. 

The upper right part is the left atrium being measured at last month's echo.  

Here is the same view from last Wednesday.

His left atrium is quickly becoming dilated from the regurgitation through the mitral valve.  This is pretty disappointing.  The implications of this are that his heart cannot handle the amount of leakage like we hoped it could.  Dr. Park elected to first try him back on Enalapril. (Blood pressure med)  However, while inpatient, Dr. Reddy was not happy with how low it brought his pressures and took him off.  So we were told to keep an eye out for signs of dizziness, generally low energy, etc...

The first dose was Friday. 

I gave it in the morning and by the time I got there at lunch to give his meds, he was complaining that he didn't feel so well.  And then by the time I arrived to be there for the halloween party, he was sitting in the middle of the carpet, pale, and not participating in any of the party activities.  He looked at me and again said he didn't feel well. So we decided to skip the party and head over to see Dr. Park instead. 

Well, by the time we arrived, he had pinked up a bit and his energy was up.  His BP was a solid 96/58 (or something right around there) so we knew that was okay.  However, in order to really rule out the enalapril as the cause of this, Park told us to d/c the med for the next week and then give it again next Saturday.  If this happens again, then we know he won't tolerate the dose.  If it doesn't, then Friday was a fluke and we continue with the Enalapril. 

Please pray for the second response.  He needs the medicine. 

Regardless of whether or not he can take Enalapril, he is going to need that valve repaired or replaced much sooner than we had hoped.

And, while you are praying, add one regarding my insurance.  Last time it was covered because Hanley was the only surgeon who could do it in our area.  This valve would be different.  Our local surgeon, Dr. Chen could perform this surgery.  He does them often.  But I really would rather not have a 4th different surgeon opening him up.  Hanley did such unique work in there, and he would remember it.  Another surgeon would not know the intricacies of the patches and, although that doesn't mean they couldn't successfully deal with the valve, it does mean that Hanley could do it better, in my opinion.  So we pray that Chen will write a letter stating that Hanley is still the guy for this job, whenever that may be. 

Overall, though, Tiernan is still doing GREAT!  Dr. Park just wants to treat any changes aggressively to stay ahead of things.